Lead, follow, get out of the way.
Service to self, service to others, get away from me; I don't need you, you worthless liability. (Service to self, not at the expense of others?)
Like the crust or the middle? Give me the top of the loaf.
Romney, Obummer, RON PAUL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Gay, straight, celibate. Well, then there's outside your own species and inanimate objects, but hey! Love those door knobs, mon!
Bad example, that last sentence. Way more variations than three.
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Don't play the game. Don't feed the system. Go your own way. Defy the programming. Most of what you do is because you were programmed, and it doesn't do you any good. Go against the trend. The world is fucked up because of too many people playing the same stupid game, so stop it. Walk away. Find another way.