http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2DRetF4IRMw&feature=player_embedded#!
I like this chick. I agree with a lot of what she says. Exploit not, be not exploited, is the main thing. Paraphrasing, of course. I do exist for self and personal evolution first. This is not to say I don't do things for others. If someone asks me for something that I can spare, I generally give it. If I can't spare it, I don't. I've given away a lot in the past when it didn't hurt me. I can't give much now, though. I think I'll close off at present before I totally devastate my reputation, and get demoted to Arsehole to the 32nd Degree.