https://www.washingtontimes.com/news/2013/may/20/victims-of-sex-assaults-in-military-are-mostly-sil/
So if you join anyway, why should you have anyone's sympathy?
And don't forget to read 'WAR IS A RACKET'. I'll even give you the link:
https://archive.org/stream/WarIsARacket/WarIsARacket_djvu.txt